tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-45747044196003041.post73007710234054849..comments2018-07-12T18:05:22.757-04:00Comments on SisterGarten: "I Wonder" Wednesday: Sugar Mamasrhythmhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16261825267877747228noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-45747044196003041.post-77949601687184133342010-01-14T11:57:56.254-05:002010-01-14T11:57:56.254-05:00I've been waiting 12 years for a sugar mama. ...I've been waiting 12 years for a sugar mama. Came close once...and it was everything I thought it could be.The Company Manhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10242253850501345154noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-45747044196003041.post-64199635452714953102009-12-17T11:56:00.200-05:002009-12-17T11:56:00.200-05:00one of the 10,000 complaints i had about destiny&#...one of the 10,000 complaints i had about destiny's chirren doing "cater to you." women took that thang to hAWrt.rhythmhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16261825267877747228noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-45747044196003041.post-40403425534595986282009-12-17T11:50:02.550-05:002009-12-17T11:50:02.550-05:00ahhh, well that's different. thanks for the cl...ahhh, well that's different. thanks for the clarification. in that regards I think that being "taken" by men is kind of a right of passage for many women, particularly women of color, who are often socialized to think they have to be taken care of brothers because it is their responsibility. you know, "the good sista" complex. men are not socialized in exactly the same wayAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-45747044196003041.post-78256006132142200672009-12-17T10:13:29.485-05:002009-12-17T10:13:29.485-05:00@austin i'ma pass, lol.
@anonymous you make so...@austin i'ma pass, lol.<br />@anonymous you make some good points. and i didn't intend to imply maliciousness (though i think that was the tone of the original conversation)...maybe a "light" maliciousness :). as in, "girl, that man had me spendin' my last dime! i was in LOVE."rhythmhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16261825267877747228noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-45747044196003041.post-58506950135038786082009-12-17T10:05:29.763-05:002009-12-17T10:05:29.763-05:00is "scraping your last pennies together"...is "scraping your last pennies together" for a partner a right of passage or a right of partnership? sometimes it just be's that way and i don't think it's always malicious. though I am not female and neither is my partner, he made way more money than I and supported me while I was in school and now i am doing the same while he is getting his degree.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-45747044196003041.post-45646620034074924642009-12-16T17:39:01.306-05:002009-12-16T17:39:01.306-05:00u can take care of me if you really want this rite...u can take care of me if you really want this rite of passage. I'll help you right through this period. :)Austin Andersonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00162565734490222030noreply@blogger.com